My personal experiences as a phone sex operator enabled me to gather up some effective tips that can make each call session “too hot to handle” and intensely mind-blowing.

If you want to achieve real satisfaction when having phone sex, follow these tips that can get you screaming for more in extreme delight.

Tip #1. Assume a Certain Role

Assume a character that is totally different from what you are and just get out of your comfort zone. Use sexy teasers and role-playing elements. Remember that phone sex is anonymous and you can pretend to be a hooker, a model or even a hot port star.

So get into that role and forget about who you are for a moment to easily let go of your inhibitions.

To achieve a pleasurable phone sex experience, you must be creative enough to assume any role and find ways to get in the mood for it.

Tip #2. Be Fearless and Naughty

The secret to having a satisfying phone sex is being bold and fearless. You must be ready for anything like listening to your caller/phone sex partner talk dirty, moan, sigh and get breathless while masturbating.

To respond, you must reciprocate these sounds and do your part in satisfying your phone sex partner. So, instead of defining the experience as cringe-worthy, you must consider these sexual sounds as enjoyable and arousing.

Tip #3. Talk Dirty

Phone sex is all about using words that are dirty and sexually-suggestive.

You must know how to use these words in such a way that they would bring sexual arousal for both you and your phone sex partner. Timing is everything as well as proper voice modulation. So, you must know exactly when to drop the bomb and say;

“I can almost feel you getting hard”, “you’re making me wet”, “I want you” and so on.

Talk about your sexual fantasies and learn the art of dirty talking to achieve a rewarding phone sex experience.

Tip #4. Explore Your Wildest Sexual Fantasies

Make good use of your imagination and start exploring your wildest sexual fantasies.

Have you been dreaming about having sex with your best friend’s girlfriend or with the guy who delivers your pizza or your gym instructor?

Think of scenarios that turn you on like car sex, office sex or sex on the beach. A little creativity can help you unleash your desires and drive you off the edge.

Tip #5. Use Sex Toys

Phone sex is basically mutual masturbation. So if you feel like using your sex toys to heighten up the pleasure, feel free to do so. Using your sex toys creatively can also help you experiment with various forms of stimulation that can turn you on and may help you discover new sensations and secret erogenous zones on your body.

Setting the right mood for phone sex depends on what turns you on. You may dim down the lights, play romantic music and apply essential oils that stimulate sexual desires.

Tip #6. Set the Right Mood

Create the perfect setting for phone sex. Dim down the lighting, play soft music, wear something sexy or get fully naked and start touching yourself. You may also use essential oil variants that enhance libido.

Setting the right mood can help you achieve better arousal and it contributes to genuine satisfaction. Moreover, having the right setting and mood for phone sex will make it easier for you to talk dirty and audibly express your pleasure.

Tip #7. Get to Know Different Sexual Fetishes

For those who want to take gigs as a phone sex operator, knowing different sexual fetishes or kinks can help you connect better with your caller/client. Here’s a quick tip, get your computer or smart phone ready every time you’re talking to a client so you can easily research whatever your client is asking you to do.

At any point, you may come across a client who has kinks for BDSM, spanking, role playing or anal sex. Examples of sexual fetishism are sadism (arousal from physical pain), podophilia (arousal to feet), vorarephilia (arousal to eating a person’s body parts) and pubephilia (arousal to pubic hair).